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After reading shannen's post... I kinda have mixed feelings, becuz, 1 part she's rite, but 1 part of me seems to think differently... Well, though she is completely right, there's still some point which i want to change, I think this could affect everyone's attitude.

She said " i didnt know that while i was having a great time ytd,ppl were actually reminded of their sad stuffs and blah.now i feel abit guilty to be drunk in happiness."

Actually, being drunk in happiness ain't anything to be guility abt, it's actually good. You feel better, and if people around u is feeling down, u share ur happiness~

And this paragraph " make yourself drown in happiness.fake one?whats the meaning of fake happiness?you mean happiness which comes from yourself which you think is dumb?happiness which can make you happy are REAL.they're not fake.even though you can get hurt from it,isnt it better that you made yourself happy right? "

Making urself drown in happiniss, ISN'T dumb. Why? Being happy, making urself happy, simply = optimistic.
Of cuz it's better for real happiness, but it beats making urself feel sad right? Rather den waiting for happiness to come, why don't u go and search or even create it urself?

Here's smth that is really SENSIBLE " just smile through things.at least a smile is better than tears.that is something i've realised so much " Yea, i totally agree, a smile melts eternal coldness don't u think? When u first enter ur new class, 1 smile, could bring warmness in ur heart and melt the ice wall between the both of u.

And ah, i think she wrote wrong here.... " if you died and became a spirit,look at the world.see their sadness.then you would have known that you shouldnt throw your life away. " If i look at the sad world ah, i rather die. LOL. I think she's trying to sae that, if u look at the sadness u haf brought to ur close ones, den.... And by lookin at the sadness much worst den urs, twirling in the world, and people tryin their best to fight it.

And i didn't know that she'll use such a deadly word, "self-multilation" O_o

And hey~! I fulfilled all ur requirements except six and eight... =D