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read the recent post by Xin Ni...

She said:
happiness when shared-> doubled
sadness when shared -> halfed

but she thinks that she'll make ppl feel sad at the same time too.
(let me tell u, u're wrong)

When u share sadness with people, they understand, they "feel" it. But in reality, they don't. Cuz no matter how much a person understands u. There can't be COMPLETE understanding. Though the person may have similiar experience, but the situation will definately be different. hence, there's no harm sharing ur sadness. U let them go, and happiness and fill up your heart. If u hold on to something u're supposed to let go, u end up hurting yourself instead.

So why not start everyday afresh, stop thinking abt ur problems and look ahead? There's no overnight quarrells for us. Even though we seem to detest each other and dun feel like talkin. So wad? Deep inside our hearts, we yearn for care, concern and friends. No problems can't be solved. As long as u try, it's possible. I know it's hard to face up when it comes to feelings, lyk saying sorry when u're feeling wronged. But taking a step back brings harmony again. Hence we say that patience and tolerance is gold.

Love can dissolve hatred. If people hate u, be daring and ask them why. If u don't, u can nv change, and it won't change the situation in any way. Xin Ni, do not even think of doing such foolish things. If i'm not wrong, it's juz that u feel that u're being too strictly controlled by ur mother. Hard as it may seems, find a suitable timing, sit down and talk to her. Even if she starts to scold or being loud at u. DON'T be afraid, that's wad i learnt. VOICE out ur problems and let her know. Dun let her understand, MAKE her understand. But if it gets too heated, stop. It may become worse. This is my advice, take it if u want.

For Wan Ting, from wad i can see and think, u have encountered a problem which deeply affects ur emotions and u juz cannot stop thinking abt it, rite? Well, not that u cannot stop thinking, but juz that when u settle down and ur heart is calm , a wave comes by and shake ur world again. Well, if u could, or want, u can tell me, or Xin Ni, or juz anyone close to u. Revealing a problem is alot more relaxing den bottling it to urself. Well, that's wad i guess, i dunno it's true anot... But if it is, and u chose to tell me, u could sms me or e-mail to me. uh, hp no. 82011016. oi, ppl out there, dun get my no. anyhow spam me hor.

that's all, wish u 2 girls a safe and pleasant childhood